Have you found that people who are right in the midst of a
personal struggle will gravitate to you and that your energy seems to guide
them through their crisis? Well that may
mean that you are a catalyst of other people’s healing.
I am not referring to the daily healing work I do as a
practitioner. No, I am talking about a much deeper personal and emotional
healing done in a one-to-one relationship.
I am looking at why I get drawn into these situations. With my own experiences I have found that the
following traits and behaviors attract the people who are in need of a catalyst
to make life changing decisions:
Authenticity
After years of
working on myself I have come to a place in my life where I feel truly
authentic. I don’t feel judged by
anyone because I don’t care what others think and I don’t judge others. The saying “What other people think of you is
none of your business” resonates with me at a conscious and unconscious
level. This authenticity leads to ease
in my dealings with others and makes them feel comfortable to share their
secrets.
Intensity
I live my
life with an intensity that is seldom matched in people around me. Other people who resonate the same become close friends and
in these cases there is no energy loss on either side. The ones who don’t vibrate at the same rate
find my intensity and energy acts like a catalyst for them. They draw from this and use it to spark
change in their own lives. In most cases
this is not a problem because I have learnt how to protect myself from energy
vampires.
Heart
Connection
My heart is open to my community, my friends and my family. My heart is generally open in this way. I do however keep my heart hidden in a
relationship until something happens that triggers a happy memory and allows me
to open it. Once that happens I am 100%
present and engaged. I don’t play games
well, so I avoid them. I am either in or
out there is no in between. This trait
often makes the other person feel safe and then they start to engage at a
deeper level. There are times they run
because they are just not ready. When they
run I struggle to just let it be at first but I soon see the wisdom
Enthusiasm
I am nothing
if not enthusiastic. I have a passion
for life and I don’t play small. I have
lived most of my life taking risks and laughing at most of the
consequences. My motto, if you don’t
laugh you’ll cry and that won’t solve anything.
So I choose to laugh. If doesn’t
hurt less but it is more bearable and affords me the grace to hold my head up
and laugh with others at my crazy life. People
who need to feel protected when taking a risk notice this. They draw energy from me to step into the
unknown.
Do you have
the same traits? For me it isn’t always
easy… sometimes I invest and find that I am left asking what went wrong. Does this happen to you? Have you been left wondering how come you
have been squeezed dry?
Here is what
I know; you have far more reserves than you think. You will always return stronger than
before. You will recover quickly as long
as you are never a victim. Perhaps it is
yours to do but remember you always have a choice.
I realize quickly
that I choose my path and that there is power in every choice I make. Life is glorious and we should all live it to
the fullest, even if it means taking risks and laughing in the face of despair.
Choose
wisely…
Love &
Light
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