Healing is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself
however in the midst of the gift are a few hidden truths that you only start to
discover once your path is set.
Not everyone
cares:
We all feel that we should be supported by the people who
love us as we start our journey towards healing. The truth is though that most people who know
you want you to stay the same. Although
hard to believe it is because they know your triggers and the patterns they run
with you. As you start to heal your past
you change and that can be scary for some.
The usual patterns no longer apply and they will start to lose control
over you. Co-dependent relationships it
will become harder to maintain and will become an issue for you and the other
person.
You will
lose friends:
Friends will
starts to drift away as you change. You
will find more and more that you lose contact with old friends that don’t see
the change in you as positive.
Additionally you will find that you don’t have the same things in common
anymore. As your vibration increases you
will naturally let go of relationships that don’t serve you. There is a positive
side here though, those who do support your change will stay and their
vibrations will increase as well.
You will
fail – many times:
There will
be days where your one-point will shift, your emotions will rule as they did
before and the “itty bitty shitty committee” in your mind will run wild. However the good news here is that as you
heal you will be able to return to a neutral state quicker. Don’t get discouraged when you feel as if you
are taking one step forward and two steps back, you are not truly, we
continually come back to the things we thought we knew to gain a deeper
understanding. Also an unhealed pain or pattern
will keep showing up in your life until it is healed. The Universe gives us many opportunities to
heal all the triggers and pain patterns we run in our lives. Healing takes determination and strength of
will.
Change is
difficult:
Staying the
same is so much easier than healing that it could be tempting to give up. You already know everything about your life and
changing takes you into the unknown. The
unknown is a place where nothing you do can be anticipated. You don’t know how you will respond to
anything and everyday will be a balancing act between the past, present and
even the future as you start to speculate what the next test will be. However we know that pain is a great
motivator for moving forward as long as you move through the fear of what the
unknown might look like. The trick is to
remain in the present and deal only with one thing at a time. Baby steps…
Even though
these truths seem challenging healing is still the best thing you can for
yourself. Imagine a life where you feel
balanced and whole. Imagine a life where
remembering the past is painless and new challenges are dealt with courageously
without causing blame or shame. It is all worth it because in the end you get
to SHINE….
Love & Light
