Finally all the little deaths I have had the last few years are starting to make sense. Many of you have heard me talk about a twenty seven year cycle and how we move through it. Within that cycle I also see another six/seven year cycle for me. There is always a significant change in my life on that six/seven year cycle. This last shift that has coincided with my twenty seven year cycle has been life altering… again.
These moments are often marked by a loss. It may be a lost love or a financial loss, death or perhaps a loss of joy but there is always a loss. What I have learnt about loss is you need to allow yourself to feel it. I have found so many people who don’t want to face their pain; they believe that all negativity should be shunned like a leper. What they are missing out on is learning the full lesson of the series of events and integrating those lessons.
Now that doesn’t mean that you indulge in self-pity and wallow in the loss. It means that you allow yourself to feel it. Then you work with the loss to understand the lesson. You keep working with it and you keep delving deeper and deeper until the full meaning is revealed. You do this with optimism, sobriety, humour and determination. If you don’t you could be on a slippery slope to depression and illness and that doesn’t serve you.
My second twenty seven year cycle ended with loss. For the last three years I have been working it and I also finally made a few vital changes that have allowed me to fully move on. I feel like a butterfly that is no longer in a glass jar. Funny thing is, my circumstances have not changed. I have worked through all the death and change since I stepped into my third, twenty seven year cycle and now I am ready to seek new adventure and find a new edge.
It started with the simple act of self-care. This included cleaning up my eating habits and getting back to gym. My energy levels are up and I am feeling an increase in my life force, sexual energy which has been totally out of whack since menopause (another loss that needed to be understood). As we know when sexual energy improves so does your ability to manifest and I can feel it awaken after years of sluggishness.
Now I stand at the edge of my Crone years with all the wisdom I have gathered. I have a new understanding of life and what is important. I am filled with gratitude. Sometimes I am even able to hold onto that joy in the midst of the trivial irritants that happen daily and sometimes I grind my teeth and swear, but it’s all good because...
I’m feeling good….
Love & Light
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